We made it to Oklahoma safe and sound and had a great visit with family there. It started out with a 14 hour drive to my sister’s house in Edmond. Owen, my 12 month old grandson, did pretty well on the drive. He didn’t sleep much and his mamma worked hard to keep him occupied and happy, but overall he did well. We visited with my sister’s family that night, then the next morning my Tulsa family arrived for brunch. My cousin, Julie, was in Tulsa and planning to fly back home to Texas that day, but changed her flight to leave from Oklahoma city (OKC) instead so she could see all of us! What a great surprise! We all enjoyed our visit, then headed to downtown OKC for my niece, Averi’s graduation. It was at a convention center downtown and she was one of 38 valedictorians! So proud of her! It was fun to watch her graduate, then we had a celebration back at the house in her honor. Later that night we headed to my mom’s house in Talala, about a 2 hour drive. We loved visiting my mom’s church on Sunday – we feel like they are family to us, too! We so enjoyed seeing friends, and had a nice bonus – we found out that a couple we knew back during our college semester in Italy are members there now! Howard and Doris Bybee – Howard was the director of the bible school where we lived that semester in Florence, so we were around them quite a bit. One of our favorite stories is how Howard called Chet and I into his office one day and spoke with us quite seriously about considering team mission work (as a married couple!) after we finished school. We had only been dating for a couple of weeks at that point, so I think we had the “deer in the headlights” look about us! We told Howard the story at church Sunday, and he laughed and said he must have thought we were already a married couple when we arrived that semester! Maybe he could see something we didn’t know yet! 🙂 He was tickled to know that we are planning, Lord willing, to do full-time mission work after Chet retires in less than 4 years! It was so much fun to see them again! That evening, we had a family dinner at a Thai restaurant in Tulsa to celebrate Kinsey’s graduation with our Oklahoma family. We had fun there, and then headed to my brother’s house and had a little early family birthday party for me! They all sang Happy Birthday and also signed it to me! It really touched my heart – apparently they sent a link around with the song in sign language so they could all practice! Kinsey and I each had a cupcake with our baby pictures on it! Another fun night! The rest of the week was spent visiting, playing games, and relaxing. We had some excitement on Monday with the tornadoes in the area. Thankfully our family was all safe, in spite of the fact that a tornado touched down only 3 miles from where we were. We were heart-broken and inspired by the events in Moore, OK that day along with the rest of the country. We arrived back home on Thursday evening tired, but having had a wonderful time. Friday was a busy day trying to get ready for the big graduation party here. I had lots of help from Kinsey and Cody around the house and that made a huge difference! We celebrated Jessi’s birthday as a family at a favorite Indian restaurant and then had dessert at home. Yesterday we had somewhere around 45 friends and family over to help celebrate our sweet daughter’s high school and college graduation (she completed a 2 year AA degree)! We are so proud of her, and it was a wonderful day of fellowship and food and celebrating her accomplishments! Now my focus shifts to laundry and packing for a trip to Florida on Wednesday! Lots to do between now and then, but can’t wait to spend some time with the Florida family and to celebrate my 2 niece’s graduations.
I am adjusting quite well to the CPAP, I believe. I have found the right spot for the mask to fit comfortably and barely even notice that I have it on. While in OK I had some pretty bad muscle pain in my back – I think it’s from sleeping in positions I’m not used to and on beds I’m not used to. I’m hoping that will improve once I settle back into my normal routine at home. I’m still considering which diet plan I will be implementing when I get back. I’m leaning right now toward counting calories and working at getting the right mix of protein, healthy fats and still keeping my carbs low, although not nearly as low as Atkin’s requires. I plan to start working out in the pool at Lifetime Fitness then as well. I feel like walking or working out in the water are the best ways right now for me to get moving. I have a heart rate monitor that I can wear(can be worn in the water), so it will make it easy for me to stick with the guidelines the doctor game me about my heart rate while working out. I’m still pretty short of breath – not as bad as it was around my hospitalization, but more like it was all last year. I’m hoping that regular workouts will dramatically improve that.
I am feeling blessed to have the opportunity to spend so much time with family and also feeling quite blessed to have raised 3 wonderful children! Kinsey is our “baby” so we are at the end of the phase of our life where we are raising children in our home. Now we get to relate to them as adults and enjoy watching them move into the next phase of their lives. It’s such a content and wonderful feeling to see them all standing strong as faithful christians and responsible hard-working adults! We are so very blessed!